My partner and i are thinking on having a child, she is almost 31yrs old and want to go first, her mother hates me and blames me for her daugther becoming a lesbian and being with me, she says that she will make sure our child knows that i am nothing of he/her, and we are just leaving together, she has being putting a lot of stress on our relationship therefore i have been stressing my partner out, i want to feel like she is capable of defending our family even from her own mother, one day her mother says she will not love the child and the next she comes around saying the opposite, they lived together for 30 yrs, until she moved out with me, the cord has not been cut yet, my partners has to do everything for her including bank deposits, i dont know what to do or say anymore, whe have had plenty of arguments about this, and ive started to question if i want to have a family with her or not, i know this is too short for such a big picture but i need some advice. Thank you
2007-08-13
02:29:24
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Marriage & Divorce