This is crazy. My husband had (what I think was a very minor affair) with a mutual married friend. Needless to say, we're no longer friends with this couple. This was over a year ago. I just found out recently that she and her husband are pregnant. I am a career girl and want to be sure this marriage can survive before bringing a child into this world, so we are waiting for those reasons...but, I'm feeling older and older. Then, I found out my ex from YEARS ago (who I had some serious history--an abortion--with) got a girl pregnant and married her. We are all now in our 30s, so not babies ourselves.
Why do I care about what happens in the lives of these other people who have hurt me in the past? I want to live a good and happy life and this feels so bad.
Why do I feel like I have to one-up people who have wronged me? I think it's too much at one time coming back to haunt me. Why can't I just deal with my own life and not care about these losers?!?!?
Sorry so long..
2007-08-06
15:23:41
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