I have been in and out of a verbally and sometimes physically violent relationship for over 5 years. I recently returned to my home town to try and start again and, you guessed it, he followed me. He has now started working in another town about 2 hours from me and its as though he only wants me when its convenient for him. I am so churned up over all of this, its affecting my whole life, my work, my relationship with my friends and family, everything. I know the relationship wont go anywhere, we have tried like 13 or 14 times and it ends in heartache every time, but yet I hang on and hang on. Lately it has been worse, I stress when he doesnt call me (we usually end up fighting over the phone anyway), he says he's coming to visit me, then doesnt show up and I get really upset. Its consuming my whole life and I know I have to let it go, but how?
2007-08-02
21:39:09
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Dee
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Mental Health