I get down sometimes because I feel like this. I know they say everyone is beautiful, but guys never approach me. I'll be 25 soon, and a guy has not shown any personal interst in me since I was 16. I know I have a great figure and a lot of guys feel I might be sexy, but I know several people have told me I was ugly, even some relatives. Everyone says I'm really nice, but let's face it, guys don't usually approach the nice girls. They go for the pretty ones.
2007-08-02 21:33:58 · 8 answers · asked by florita 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And, this is after 7 years of college and being around all types of guys. It seems that they only want me for my figure.
2007-08-02 21:35:10 · update #1
It sounds as though you need to put yourself in situations where it is more likely that you will meet people with whom you share interests and have a chance to get to know as you do things together in a group. There are many serious people who would like to have a companion, friend, lover, spouse, and are not primarily concerned about appearance. Join some clubs or groups involved things you are interested in. A book club, friends of the library, community sports group, dancing club, environmental group, Habitat for Humanity, political activity, --there are zillions of choices. You will get to meet and know people. They will get to know you. People only see your appearance objectively before they know you. Ever after that what they see is affected by what they know of you.
In order to enhance your natural appearance, be sure that you are neatly and attractively groomed and dressed. You might want to consider getting a professional make-up consultation, although I personally think that make-up isn't really necessary. I think almost everyone I've ever seen looks better just wearing their faces naked!
2007-08-02 21:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get down on yourself. Whats ugly to some is beautiful to others. I never get bent out of shape if some dude doesn't dig me because I'm just not his type. I don't take it personally and neither should you. Some guys do go for the nice girls, don't loose hope.
2007-08-03 04:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a nice person and know what you really want the choices will be clear.
If you only know specific kinds of physical relationships it means you started before you were ready. A therapist may help you resolve any issues that sabotage your development.
Guys only start to clue in at 25, and some never do -- trust me on this one.
2007-08-03 04:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks... its possible the hot cocky guys think they are too good for you if you dont have the prettiest face and the slightly less hot, more down to earth guys are nervous to approach you cuz you have a good figure...
maybe you should get involved in some activities and stuff like that so you can meet guys and they can get to know you for your personality rather than just see how you look...
2007-08-03 04:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everybody feels that way sometimes. you shouldnt worry,youll find someone eventually. just remember sometimes the longer you wait the better it is so you may just be killin time until super wonder man comes into your life. besides if a guy doesnt like you for who you are and only cares how you look it wouldnt work anyways.
2007-08-03 04:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by kevlar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey no girl wants me so your not alone. But I don't give a rats @ss, they can all go to hell.
2007-08-03 04:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a hottie. I could never conceptualize the idea that anyone would think I am ugly.
2007-08-03 04:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
no.
2007-08-03 04:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by littleflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋