idk why but i really like this guy. we have been together kinda off and on for a while now. niether of us really want a relationship but we obviously are attracted to eachother. He flirts with alot of girls and even tho i dont want a relationship with him i get really jealous.. should i talk to him about it or just let it go. because it really hurts me and one of the worst things about it is him and my Best Friend flirt ALOT.. he usually flirts with either me or her. like he likes me one day and ignores me the next.. and getting really sick of it and just seeing him and my best friend flirting right in front of me when its just us 3 hanging out too and them completely ignoring me hurts really bad.. pleaase i need some advice!!!
2007-08-02 21:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by mary m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still a kid,
Hence you will not listen when I say find somebody you really care about -- as you don't know what this means yet.
Enjoy having fun as a kid, don't be in such a rush to grow up -- it happens by itself in time.
2007-08-02 21:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, definitely get over him. It is just stressing you out for no good reason. So when they are flirting why don't you go somewhere else for awhile. When he tries to flirt with you just be pleasant, but try not to give him flirty responses. It doesn't sound as though he is interested in a relationship with you or anyone else at this time. He is just practicing how to flirt. I think he probably enjoys it. If you could just enjoy it and not think it has any other significance that would be ok too. But you should not be expecting that there is anything going on but flirting for flirting's sake.
2007-08-03 04:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You declare that you dont want a relationship with him,he might have been noticed that,thats why flirts with a lot of girls trying to find the one who truely loves him.But if you really don't love what then do you want from him?wasting his time?stay away from him and let him find his destiny.
2007-08-03 04:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don’t want a formal relationship with him, he’s under no obligation to pay any attention to you what so ever and is free to flirt with whomever he chooses, and you the same. You can’t say that you don’t want to be with him AND he’s not allowed to be with someone else. That’s selfish.
OK, here’s your choices:
1. Talk to your best friend about how much it bothers you.
2. Talk to dude and tell him how much it bothers you.
3. You share him with your friend.
2007-08-03 06:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not an expert when it comes to love advices, but i'll try my best to help you with your problem.
first and foremost, i think you must sort out what you really feel for that guy. what do you really feel for him? how deep is it? because figuring out and settling first what you feel for him will help you to think what you should do next. that is, just like what you said, if you should talk to him or just let him go. you really have to figure it out first because based from what i've read from you, you're hurting right now but you don't know if you're ready to commit in a relationship. settle everything first within yourself. sort out what you really feel for him.
now, if you've decided that your feelings are that strong to make you talk to him, just be sure that you're ready for the consequences coz it will either be: (1) if both your feelings for each other are mutual, that talk may take both of you to the next step/level... or... (2) be ready for rejection. (coz maybe that's just what he really wants to do right now... just to flirt... and if that's the case, he's not worth your time!).
my next question for you.. does your bestfriend knows how you feel for that guy??? coz if she knows, i think she won't flirt with him. and your friendship is far more important than any other guy problem. it's too shallow to fight over a guy! so i suggest you go talk to her too.
hope i helped you somehow...
2007-08-03 05:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by MiLay,, 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was like that when i introduced my cousin to one of my boy mates he would try it on with both of us but ended up with my cousin they were together about five or six years had a baby and all through those five six years he still come round trying it on men are not worth the bother just let him get on with it and he will realise what he is missin out on good luck take care
2007-08-03 04:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love him.and that is all.who has no past.Just let it past.And you have his now and future,but he has been with you .and he still flirts with others.there are only two reason.First,he didn't love you very much or you're common to him,so you shound let he go.second,he charactristic,and for this you still need leave him,because if he love you very much,he must care your feeling.so i think you should get over this guy.you will have a better man.so leave him.
2007-08-03 04:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ñ©E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is perfact in this world if you like him or love him say what you fell about him dont try to change him if he love you one day he change him self
2007-08-03 04:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by sam s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him first
then if things dont work out,
kick him to the curb baby
2007-08-03 04:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by â?¥Hubba Bubbaâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to find someone who is into you
2007-08-03 05:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋