been together for 7yrs. i have 3 kids & he has 2 from our previous marriages. i found out 3yrs ago he has a child he wants nothing to do with & nobody knows about. she is 6yrs. he was 30yrs and she was 18yrs. this makes me ill. still i'm with him. he has physically abused me since we've been together. (broken hand, bruised kidneys, etc.)& never in front of kids i never reported it, too ashamed. he's always so sorry after. this where i get confused, abuse is getting a little farther apart. he doesn't belittle me, or call me bad names like i hear in other stories. he tells me how much he loves me & how beautiful i am all the time but he lies constantly & hurts me & recently made me have an abortion, i'm a wreck over it. every1 in town, his family & friends think he's a great, charming, fun guy but they don't know the real him. they tell me i'm so lucky. my friends & family see the real him. he's mean to them too. i don't know y i stay? y is it so hard 2 leave him? shouldn't i leave?
2007-07-31
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