Two days ago my girlfriend gave the news she is pregnant. I had always told her that I never had the desire to be a father. Obviously the birth control method she was using was not so effective and she became pregnant. She told me she will have the baby, I'd never ask her to have an abortion. I have rejected her and the child, I told her that I love her very much, but I'm not willing to raise that child or to give her any child support. I think she is the one who wants the child, not me. I made this very clear to her. She called me cold harted and insensitive. I love her very much, but I don't think I'll be a good father. We were planning to move in together. Everything was going right until she got pregnant. She asked me if I was going to be part of that child's life, and I think I'm willing to visit him once in awhile. I wish this wouldn't be happening right now. I know this will be very difficult for her, but a future with me is a future without children.
2007-07-29
09:03:00
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Marriage & Divorce