he is 43. i am 25. he is in IT. I am in HR. I started 6 months or so ago. I always thought he was attractive but old and and kind of gruff. plus, he was obnoxious if i ever asked for help. so i basically ignored him, didnt say hi whatever. i figured he just didnt like me in any way. he would sometimes say hi and i would be rude because i thought he was obnoxious. then one day, i called him on it. he said he was trying to be funny and is just like that. i told him off a little. around that time, i could ALWAYS see him looking at my boobs and butt. we've become somewhat friendly. he blushes sometimes when we joke around, has tripped embarassedly started, saying hi, and wearing cologne. it seems he is attracted to me but kind of like squelches it. i dont know how to act around him and it makes me feel awkward. i want to be friendly and cool but dont want him to think/know i like him, nessecarily, esp. if he has a gf or doesnt like me or thinks he is too old/doesnt want to date a coworker?
2007-07-27
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