How would you feel if you started seeing someone casually, and it developed unexpectedly into a physical relationship where you both constantly tell each other how wonderful and great you are (and you, the man, even dropped the "L" word while you were drunk) but neither of you had made the relationship "official" yet?
To be fair, I made it pretty clear in the beginning that I wasn't looking for a serious thing ... and now, I think I might be changing my mind but I'm not sure, and I don't want to go out on a limb if he isn't looking for something serious ... maybe he only said the "L" word because he was drunk, not because he meant it ...
So, my official question is this: in this situation, do you men even feel the necessity of offically saying "we're dating" or "we're exclusive"? Is he holding off because he doesn't think I want to go there or because he already assumes we are there?
(he does tell me how he gets jealous & is afraid I'll see someone on the side)
2007-07-24
03:52:51
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