ok, for 3 yrs i have been friends with this guy and he was cool....like till i asked him to move in..then he admitted having a kid 7 yrs ago with a girl who doesn't let him see the kid, he doesn't know if it's his. he refuses to deal with that. he promises to do better, like do his part, helping pay bills, rent, a real job. he expects me to do for him and be about him and take care of him! it's unfair! he is sleeping with me, we use condoms but wants a kid with me. hello? he has no money saved, he gets weird when i spend time with my girlfriend {WE LIVE A POLY/GF/BF LIFESTYLE} he spouts to me good things but never comes through. promises. i just feel dissapointed, and he just is a good friend but he really has no intrest in maintaining a relationship and now i am just irritated and upset after taking his word. i took his commitment to this relationship seriously and now i feel let down. what do i do? we have talked and nothing changes, he even got up in my face several times too. help
2007-07-23
03:15:12
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