I lied a lot to my b/f T in the beginning of our 18 mth. relationship but I have never cheated on him. Around our 6th mth, an incident occured with me lying and he has called me horrible names, hurt me, etc. ever since. I neglected to tell him I let a boy lay his head on my leg and stroke my leg that night (it was a very awkward situation, I did NOT enjoy it) until the 11th month. I have not lied since the 11th month. Nothing has changed. My b/f is still horrible to me, I am retaliating in the same horrible manner, screaming at him, etc. because it hurts so bad. My ex A was my friend in the beginning of my relationship with T but I realized this was a pipedream because of T's behavior, so I never talked to A again. A called me yesterday, back from basic training, and he is leaving the country for almost 4 years. I may never see him again. Me and T basically broke up over this. Should I have tried longer to make amends with T and see if he was ever going to change? Or was I right?
2007-07-11
04:42:27
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