We fought because he did not want to have a conversation w/me. He thought what I wanted to converse about was a small and worthless thing, that as smart as I am, I should have figured it out and gotten over it myself. I dont agree. I believe that if I was upset he should have been willing to humor me. Make me feel better if he could. Where I went wrong was that after he shut down as in refusing to speak. I was aggressive with him, I swore at him. I did all of this to get a response. When I could have waited another day, or a time when we both cooled off. I know him so I knew it would work, but I did it for 3hours. I refused to let up. I feel liek I always let up for him, so whynot for me? It was a war of the wills. He has a bad temper that he keeps in check, but I made it flare. He put his hands on my neck. He let go immediately, but it scared us both. Hes apologized. I have to, I pushed him to the edge. And purposefully. I dint think it go that far tho...
2007-07-07
10:21:15
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