I don't mind not to get married, and just live together (this seems to be the case with most couple in UK anyway), but how would you know that the guy is serious about you?
I think my BF loves me, but in 2 years of dating (1 year out of 2 living together and getting along perfectly) he never said he loved me. He says the marriage is not important and doesn't change anything, but how do you know that it's not a convinience from his side and in 3 years time I'd find out that he never loved me at all?
It's a difficult topic and he doesn't really want to talk about it and it's very hard to initiate the conversation about it again.
I am being harassed by my family and my friends for living with a guy and not marrying him. I don't know what to answer, and they all pity me saying that he doen't love me and will leave me, and I don't want to meet friends or call them in case they start asking again....
2007-07-04
01:30:18
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gavira_76
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Marriage & Divorce