wow, this is kind of involved. my husband of 4 years has turned out to be a liar about his past (pathological wild stories that i've discovered are not true--everything from war hero stuff to movie star stuff). i found out AFTER MARRIAGE that he is completely devoid of sex drive, impotent and does NOT want to have sex ever again. he was diagnosed bipolar 3 months ago (meds don't seem to be helping--anger, paranoia, micromanagement, can't sleep, is on 4 bipolar meds)..etc. we decided we are going to go our separate ways with kindness (13 year old son involved). just when i told him that i have completely given up on trying to be in a marriage with only myself--he is now telling me that we need to go back to our old church and start praying together more. he thinks that will fix his attitude, which is resentful, hostile, and unpredictable. i've been accepted to law school. should i postpone a year and leave the marriage now before something terrible happens? need your thoughts.
2007-06-25
18:12:54
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Marriage & Divorce