My husband and I are nearly complete opposites. All is good in our marriage except for my willingness to -do as he says. I cannot tolerate being told what to do by him. He does 99% of the decisions and asks me for my input, most of the time he dismisses my input and does what he wants. Like for our sons birthday here yesterday, he planned when where decorations cake, everything by himself and I had no say in how it went. Last week he bought a car without telling me.
He gets on me for the littlest things and says they are important to him, no matter how insignificant they seem to me.
Yesterday he was watching our 2 yr old son, as I watched our 4yr old daughter and 6 month old at the park. The child he was watching completely fell in a slippery part and hit his head on cement. IF THAT would have happened under my care, my husband would have gone off on me saying I wasnt watching him well enough blah blah. But I dont do that to him...I feel angry, sad and unloved.
2007-06-24
08:10:07
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SandLady
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Marriage & Divorce