My 11yo nice has a 16yo boyfriend. After posting another question here previously, I figured I would add this as an add-on.
One person mentioned she should be on birth control. After reading that, I agree. I mean, they may not have sex but its better to have her on it to be on the safe side. Also, should I explain to her about the birds and the bees, I mean, with whatever she doesn't know, so she is more prepared just in case? Is there anyway, being 18, I can help her get the birth control?
I really do not plan on the two of them having sex. I am also neutral on it. I am not for or against it. I feel what they do in their bedroom is none of anyone's business, including her parents or myself. I also feel that no matter how much I educate my niece or maybe threaten this boy, if they are going to have sex, they will have sex. There will be nothing anyone can do to stop it. So I'd rather educate her and be proactive instead of her & the family being quite surprised.
2007-06-23
06:36:04
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CuriousMaude
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