My fiance and I are getting married in two months. His parents were only asked to pay for booze and the rehearsal dinner. Keep in mind, its not even a lot of booze, it was only 2 kegs, and maybe some wine. They started saying all of this stuff about not wanting to pay for it, and also started questioning out motives for getting married in the first place (just to hit us where it hurt) Along with calling me a slut, and saying we dont deserve a good wedding to begin with.
After hearing all this, me and my fiance came to the conclusion that we didnt want their help with the wedding at all. We would rather come up with the money ourselves, then accept help from his parents when they are being so rude and difficult. However, as soon as we told them not to worry about it anymore, they threw a huge fit about how they were looking forward to it, and tried to make us feel bad for acting like such monsters!
Were we justified in turning away their help? What would you do?
2007-06-22
05:36:04
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