I am an unhappy wife of 17yrs, who is saddened because I cannot seem to get my husband to reduce his committments.
He works a 40 hr week, coaches AFL under 13's 2 nights a week, also he does 3 x 12 hr shifts as a volunteer ambulance officer after work on weekdays, and then one 24 hr shift most weekends. He has developed health issues but still will not slow down. I am lucky that I prefer my own company, but am sick of waiting for him. So do I live the kids life with them?, do I find a bit on the side to give me some sparkle back ?, do I live my life like he isnt there, make my own plans and exclude him? Or do I take the kids and start fresh? My man is honest, caring, a great provider, a very hard worker and someone with whom I have spent over half my life but this same issue has been lurking in the background and source of arguments for 3 years now. He used to be my Rock, now all I want is THE ROCK!!
2007-06-17
18:43:44
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nikznailz
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Marriage & Divorce