Well my sister is only 14 and she told my parents that she is a lesbian. My parents are really homophobic and bitched at her for like an hour and then kicked her out of the house. Now she doesnt know where to go. How can i talk my parents into letting her come home. they are being ridiculous! i thought they were better than that.
2007-06-17 18:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell them just what you told us!
Or...you could always report them to child welfare services. Your sister is only 14...she's a minor! Kicking her out of the house at that age without an appropriate adult guardian is illegal!
2007-06-17 18:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
So what Your parent's must be homophobic paranoid conservatives who most likely go to an evangelical church correct? Anyhow bassiclly they may think it's the right thing to do now to her but in a few years when she decides to leave your parents lives for good they will regret the discision they made.
2007-06-17 18:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that comes to mind after hearing your problem is lyrics my mother wants me to send to my father because he doesn't speak to me. IT is by George Strait it is called Love Without End, Amen. One little verse is "And he said, "Let me tell you a secret about a father's love, A secret that my daddy said was just between us."He said, "Daddies don't just love their children every now and then. It's a love without end, amen, it's a love without end, amen."
Try to get your parents to realize that she is their daughter no matter what. She is only fourteen and the world is a scary place to be alone at that age. They need to support her and love her no matter what. Maybe if talking doesn't work, try printing out the lyrics to the whole song and just leaving it in the mailbox. Good Luck and I really hope that they let her come home!
2007-06-17 19:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Discretely call the police. It is illegal to kick a minor out of the house. The police will come and inform your parents that they have to let her back in.
2007-06-17 19:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Breezy Baby 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
MY PARENTS DID ME THE SAME WAY WHEN I CAME OUT TO THEM MY SOPHMORE YEAR IN HIGH SCHOOL.I HAD NOWHERE TO GO EXCEPT FOR MY BEST FRIEND'S HOUSE AND BEING AROUND THEM MADE ME MORE COMFORTABLE ABOUT MYSELF.(MY BEST FRIEND'S FATHER WAS ALSO THE PASTOR OF OUR CHURCH)AT THAT TIME I FELT AS THOUGH NO ONE LOVED ME AND ALL I WANTED TO HEAR WAS THAT EVERYTHING WAS GOING TO BE OK AND IN THIS TIME WITH YOUR SISTER MAKING A SUCH A BIG DECISION WITH HER LIFE,THAT SOMETHING SHE NEEDS TO HEAR.AND EVEN IF ITS ONLY COMING FROM YOU,SHE NEEDS SOME SUPPORT RIGHT NOW.
2007-06-17 19:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Due Oct 21 09 with baby boy! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little sister not to long ago informed our Mother that she was gay (a lesbian).
My mother has shunned her as well as myself for supporting her. I feel that because of the demented opinions of society and religion that this will not change. Although I am not of same sex orientation as my sister, I to have felt the effects of supporting her.
Do not force your Sister to go back! Help her to find a family who is willing to love and accept her for who she is.
Do not force your parents to accept that which they choose not to accept. They will find out in their own time.
They believe that which they choose to believe and nothing you can say will change their minds. Apparently to them the loss of a daughter is not as important to them as is public opinion or religious beliefs, despite the reality of the fact that she is who she is.
If they choose not to have her in their lives as the human-being that she is because of her partner choices then that is their choice and they will have to live with that to their dying day.
Rejecting a child for being them-self is a hard thing to do, and if your parents choose to do that, then let them do so.
If you love and support your sister as I do mine, then let her know it and love her as she deserves to be loved.
Both my sister and I are ostracized from our family but we at least have each other.
This is a lesson that I to am learning. Hard and painfilled that it may be. I still love my sister.
I am learning that even though I love my Mother, I do not hold her views, and love my sister.
My Mother raised us, but I grew up with my Sister!
2007-06-17 20:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
See if you can talk an aunt or uncle into taking her in . Shes too young to be out on the street .
2007-06-18 15:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of yourself. Since being gay is genetic, you could be gay or be a carrier of the gay gene.
Most men will size up the girls family to see what traits their future children may have. You prospective husband may not want his kids to grow up gay, and then find a way to dump you.
Your sister may have given you the label of 'damaged goods'.
2007-06-18 05:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are good answers above, so I'll not repeat them. However, tell your sister that more people than she will ever know DO love her!
2007-06-17 20:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that its "just a phase" and that "girls her age sometimes get confused about things like that"...or you could just slap them in the face with a giant rubber d i l d o until they concede to your wishes...
2007-06-17 18:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by EskiMO 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋