I have been in love for almost 4 yrs. Unfortunately, I have also been going thru divorce for 4 yrs .My boyfriend and I found each other when I 'left' my husband almost 4 yrs ago. Financially, I couldn't leave and he wouldn't. My husband wanted out as much as I, but we couldn't afford it. Then our oldest daughter became mentally ill for about 2 yrs, making it difficult for me to return to work after being home with the children our entire marriage. After she got better, she developed a terrible infection which led to a series of infections and long term disability. Throughout all of these problems, my bf has continued to stand by my side, 'in secret.' He is always there for me and for my children. He is thought to be a great 'family friend,' making it easy to spend time with him. My two oldest daughters have discovered our relationship and they understand that I have no desire to hurt their father. We would all be happier if we could live separately. My problem is, how do I tell him?
2007-06-16
10:25:03
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K J
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Marriage & Divorce