For the past 5 years I have been involved with a man . He is my first love. He cheated on me , many times. But , obviously , the good must have outweighed the bad because for 5 years , I stayed. He recently moved away to another state to get his life together. We forgave eachother for a lot of hurt we caused eachother in the past . While he has been away , I met someone, he , has a child whom he and the childs mother may/may not still have a relationship ( that part is unclear!).My first love recently came back and asked me to marry him , he wants me to move away with him and for us to try that "happily ever after thing". But the truth is , I am in love with the new guy.I can do better , I know that I deserve better . But I want him . I have had some seriously rough breaks in my life and my first love is offering a life I have alwayswanted-family , home, love.Should I try with the new guy , or should i just go with my first love?
2007-06-13
02:06:56
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Marriage & Divorce