I still have very powerful feelings for my ex. And I thought he still had them for me. We broke up because we are both young and need our call in life. Well, we remained friends, so i thought. I went to look at his myspace profile one day and it said this: i don't have a social life and if i did all my friends are gone. Well i life like five min. away from him. talk about ouch on me. so i emailed him and asked what is up. he said he meant guy friends and that we shouldn't hang out so much because it is inapporpriate because of our history. I pray to find the right path. can you help me with some advice? Well, question one does he still have feelings for me and us hanging out will bring those back up? question two, what should i do, i want to tell him how i feel, but now i am not so sure that i should?
2007-06-13 02:10:26 · 5 answers · asked by Fallen from Faith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay first off sounds like he is using you for a backup plan and I would dump him and find someone who really cares about you .i dont think he has any feelings for you . dont tell him how you feel just move on .good luck .
2007-06-13 02:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not going to lie to you I don't know. He really is sounding like the friend type though if he doesn't want to hang out maybe you should check his contacts to see if there are any girls and try to get there addreass and see if he has a girl friend or not which makes the answer to your second question since I couldn't answer the first is if he has no gf right now then now would be a good time as any to share your feelings with him. But if he does have a gf then maybe you need to find someone else that you like more than him (a hard path but life is a balance of holding on and letting go). Or you can just wait untill he doesn't have a girlfriend any more.
Best of Luck
-Nicholas S ( You can call me Nick)
2007-06-13 09:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got information that raised your level of hope and he explained it away. You can continue to hope but the reality is that he's not interested in getting back together with you. Understand that the problem is with him not with you. But you need to face the facts and move on. If he had feelings for you, he'd have expressed them when you gave him the opportunity.
2007-06-13 09:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like u said u guys wr still friends.so just hang out with him.even tho he said u shouldn't.just stay friends &mayb u will find another person u feel deeply about.tell him how u feel bcuz 1 u will b holding back on urself and ull b holding back on a friend.just b honest.hope this helps=)
2007-06-13 09:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. no he doesn't have feelings for you he has clearly moved on.
2. i think you should tell him how you feel then walk away, look for some other guy and stay as far away from him as possible.
2007-06-13 09:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋