I've been with my husband for 6 years total. We've been married a year and a half. We do not have children, nor want any. Frankly, from the minute we got engaged (May of 2004), our sex life went in the toilet... it's been a struggle for 3 years to really have an active sex life.
Not to bore you with details but it's a mix of financial issues, relationship issues, family(in law) issues --- that have all brought this relationship to a standstill -- maybe in every way. We've had discussions on the topic, promises for things to change and they never change..
When my husband DOES want to have sex, it's only if he's drunk or have been drinking... I'm at the point now where I no longer give in to that -- and it's been 4 months since we've had sex. I checked his PDA and have found he's been surfing the web and looking at porn... When I do initiate sex - sober sex - i'm turned down, he says he's tired.
where do I go from here? therapy?
2007-06-08
16:05:05
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Marriage & Divorce