I was introduced to my in-laws prior to my wedding 11 months ago,because I come from a different state and I met my husband during travel and working abroad.
I thought we were getting along, But i was hurt to learn that my SIL and my MIL were talking behind my back and pretending that everything was O.K in my face. When I confronted them about the tension going onthey found faults in the samallest things , and we realised that we don't have anything in common, even we all grin and bear at family reunions. they even blamed me for being too bubbly, when i just wanted to be friendly and make everyone to feel comfortable about my newness. I guess my bro-in-law's galfriend was being jealous bcoz she has been longer and I was stealing the show, and I consider myself charming and attractive. Anyway, to get back to my question, can I forgive them, but not feel obliged to see them all the time, knowing we have no chemistry. I have the liberty to choose my circle of friends and positive energy.
2007-06-06
10:37:30
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She-whom-shall-not-be-named
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