I am in the uk and divorcing my husband. I like it here in Wales and have a few friends but my family over in the U.S. are desperate for me to come ''home''. I want to make it on my own and prove i can do it for once in my life. But i do miss my family who can give me the love and care i need. What should i do?
2007-06-06 10:38:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go home.
2007-06-06 10:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any family in Wales, and you're divorcing your husband, what reason do you have for wanting to stay there ? It's not worth sacrificing your family for the few friends you have there. And, you can prove that you can make it own your own and do it for once in your life whether you live in the UK or in the USA. But by being here, you'll also have the love and support from your family, which you'll be needing during this difficult time in your life. I'd say if you have a loving family, go to them.
2007-06-06 17:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move home for some time and then find an apartment on your own. Its good to be near your family as long as they are supportive which they are.
2007-06-06 17:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come home, you can still make it here on your own and have a great family to back you up....
2007-06-07 02:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home for now.. spend time with your family and see if it is something you want/ need.
Then make a choice to stay or go back to UK
2007-06-06 17:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by lifeiscake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a time in everyones life that they need to prove to themselves that they can make it on thier own. A valuable issue that needs to be addressed. You can do that where-ever you want to do it at. 5 miles from your family or 5000 miles from your family.
Do what you want to do or comfortable doing. Good Luck!
2007-06-06 17:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Keeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are close to your family you should move closer to them. You will feel more alone when your husband is gone and your family could be there to support you. Life is too short.
2007-06-06 17:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home.
you'll need the support to get through this difficult time.
You can always move again when you feel ready to start your life over (Usually about 2 years after divorce)
2007-06-06 17:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by lassomysoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with your Husband and Not divorce.
Divorce is never an answer. You took vows before God.
Does that not mean anything to you??? It should, a whole lot.
That is my best advice "Stay married to the man you married"!
2007-06-06 17:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think taht u should not leave if u love that place i think u shul'd get a nother house that is far away from him but if u really miss ur family then u should go but its really up 2 u
2007-06-06 17:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know until you try. If it doesnt work you can always come back to your family. You know family never gives up on us.....good luck!
2007-06-06 17:40:59 · answer #11 · answered by texaslonestar37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋