My gf is pregnant, going on about 3weeks now. She doesnt want to have the baby, but I keep assuring her I will take it, or take care of it, or do anything for it. I want to have this child, rather than an abortion. Which she wants. I would hate for a child I helped make, just vanish... it would kill me all my life wondering what it would of looked like, or grown up to be like, etc.
I think its ridiculous a woman has 100% say in whether she wants to keep a child or not. I think the man should have a say in it as well, seems he helped create the baby. Although, some would complain the woman has to carry it. 9months, I know it seems unfair, but 9months wont kill you, abortion will kill the baby. It annoys me that people get MAD at MEN for leaving the wife after a child, although a WOMAN can have an abortion an a MAN cant do anything, thats like leaving the MAN to.
Anyways, my gf punched her belly about 15times today... can it affect the baby at this early stage? Im afraid..thnx
2007-05-28
22:50:31
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