my wife left me 2 weeks ago. Some really bad stuff
happened (unplanned pregnancy, abortion, emotions,
yelling, then she left). Since then I've seen her stopping
places at times when she knows I'll be there because
it's my normal routine. She is playing hard to get.
Being there but not communicating with me at all by
phone, email or anything but she's at places where she'll
run into me a lot. I myself have tried to avoid those places.
She's serious about divorce but so am I because she
left. She is stubborn and so am I. We'd both go through
this to just prove to the other we're not going to be
pushed around. I'm wondering if I should contact her like
send her a text saying "miss your husband het?". Only thing
is if she doesn’t care she just won't respond and get satisfaction
and power from it and it will make me feel worse to not get
a response. I do think she's trying to connect with me
by being somewhere. What should I do? Lots of people say
don't contact her but it's not like I'm dating her, she's my wife.
and we have a blended family with 3 kids to consider going throug
a divorce. If I send her something and she doesn't respond I'll feel
really foolish and my self esteem will take a hit. I want her to contact
me.
2007-05-24
04:34:55
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16 answers
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asked by
golf4everdude
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Marriage & Divorce