A friend of mine was telling me last night that she is having an online relationship with this guy but she is also seeing someone else what i want to know is should I tell the guy she is seeing and what do you think of on line relationships? You know I thought she would me mature enough not to cheat she is 28 years old!
2007-05-24 04:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry call it cheating because if you are seeing anyone you aren't supposed to have any other kind of relationship with another guy on line or not
2007-05-24 04:35:21 · update #1
If the offline guy believes their relationship to be exclusive and monogamous, then yes she is cheating. If the online guy thinks she's holding out for him (unrealistic as that is) and believes the two of them to be not seeing other people offline, then yes she is cheating.
If both of these guys are just interested in her, and no committments have been made on anyone's part...then there is no cheating. However dating a guy offline while stringing along one online isn't very kewl behavior.
2007-05-24 04:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not get involved at all. Don't be a snitch and be the "bad guy" in this. It's sad, really, that she can't just tell the guy she is seeing that she is unhappy (or whatever she is) and wants to date the online guy. I don't think maturity has anything to do with cheating. It's a moral issue.
I think online relationship can turn into something real. It takes a lot of work and sacrafice from both parties, but if two people really want the relationship to work, it can. But first of all, your friend needs to take care of business by being responsible and telling the guy she's seeing she has found someone else. It will make her life easier.
2007-05-24 11:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by turtle_express16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree. On line dating is also cheating. When your in a relationship with someone, and you really care for this person, you wouldn't be looking else where for love...Even though she's 28, maybe she isn't ready for a relationship. It takes time. Time for you to find out what it is that you really want and how to get it.
Don't be to hard on her. Talk to her about it. Don't say anything to the other guy. This is something that I'm sure he would rather hear from her.
2007-05-24 11:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, especially if intimacy is involved. However, it really all depends on the type of person you are in a relationship with. There are people out there that view sex and intimacy so casually, as treat it like a game or something fun to do, which is wrong. On line relationships are not real.
Because a person can represent themselves to be anything they want to be...having a real relationship takes time. Spending time with someone, building moments, that's what something real is all about. If you care about your friend, voice your concerns, however I would stay out of it, unless this guy she is seeing is someone that means alot to you and your girlfriend isn't a true friend to you. People at times do need to be protected from the scums of the world. Good luck.
2007-05-24 11:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I dont think that you can really have an online relationship unless you actually get to see the person so I wouldnt say anything.. I am married and love talking to this one certain guy but its not a relationship but if I start seeing him I guess I would be cheating so I dont think there is much wrong with it and no I have never cheated on my husband in 6 years so I am not a ho....
2007-05-24 11:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by dawniebear22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had an online relationship for over a year now. And you are correct, cheating is cheating. I feel very guilty when someone tries to fix me up. Even though I have no interest and don't go out on him, I feel it just wouldn't be the right thing to do. You will learn that there is no age limit to cheaters. I wouldn't get involved in it if I were you. You would possibly lose your girlfriend over it.
2007-05-24 11:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mind your own business, and stick to advising your friend. Would you honestly go behind your friends back, who deserves your loyalty even if she killed someone because that what friendship is?... The thing about judging this way... karma bites you in the a** somewhere along the line. Don't do it. Just be the friend you are supposed to be.
2007-05-24 11:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with that?
Especially if you are telling both people the same thing like you love them and stuff.
I had an on line relationship and I'm now with that person.
and we've been together 6 months.
I don't think there's anything wrong with it?
But its definitely not right to have an other relationship aswell.
2007-05-24 11:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am having an online relationship and would consider it cheating to be with someone else online or face to face
2007-05-24 11:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online dating is ok but if u have someone who is in person or not through the computer u are quite wrong. But I think she should be the one to say something since this is her fault and problem.
2007-05-24 11:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by nelle boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋