Here's the story. My wedding is July 28 of this year, and I've been engaged since May of last year. I foolishly asked my oldest friend to be my maid of honor. She has always been somewhat self-absorbed, but I thought she had gotten over it.
Well, things have not turned out well. Not only has she been completely unsupportive; I can't even get her to pay for her bloody dress. The day my other bridesmaids and I went to pick them out, she ditched, so I paid for hers and she promised to pay me back (I really don't have the money to pay for their dresses, unfortunately). She has not planned any kind of shower/bachelorette party for me- she has literally not even called and asked me how plans are and if there's anything she needs to do (we don't see each other very often).
This is stressing me out so much that I know I need to tell her she's out. What is a tactful way to do this? At this point, I'm not too concerned about preserving the friendship, but I don't want to be too rude.
2007-05-20
14:04:40
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