My husband of 16 years only does quickies for last 13 years. He's not interested in my needs.
My previous love spoiled me with great sex for 3 years. Even though it was 20 years ago I still think of him. He was 10 years younger, just getting started, moved away. Even though, we kept seeing each other and talked on the phone all the time. But I decided to have a child. He wasn't ready. Ironically he got his next girlfriend pregnant so our children are the same age!
I appreciate my husband for his good qualities, but my frustration is leading me into temptation. I am afraid if this continues, we will split up and that will hurt our children.
He's also depressed, controlling and emotionally abusive, so I feel weakened. I am in therapy but I can't seem to get the will and money to move out. I had really bad cancer and am not in great health, so it seems easier to stay.
My husband won't go to a therapist with me.
2007-05-20
11:05:54
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Eve
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Marriage & Divorce