When I started dating this guy and we established ourselves as a couple, he was net-flirting with a girl from another state, telling her things you only tell someone you're involved with. When I confronted him he said he can't have feelings with someone he's never met...well why did he say those things?? We've been dating now for 11 months (I decided to stay with him b/c I was falling in love with him and I was hoping he'd stop talking with her, which he did after me pitching 3 fits). I know he loves me now, he is good to me, and we have a really good relationship and a good future outlook for us two together. However, I can not get over this past thing, & therefore I find it hard to trust him and that hurts him. He trusts me completely and I love him so much! I just have a hard time trusting him and I get nervous when he's on the net at anytime (I guess now I associate the net with cheating/mistrust). He's been patient with me on getting over this and we never discuss it. Please help!
2007-05-08
05:32:40
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