Here is the scenario: I want to be intimate and make love to my wife, but she says she is too tired, but she says because she loves me, she will let me have sex to please myself, meanwhile, her eyes are closed and she's half asleep. I guess I'm kind of a romantic, because I don't really want to have sex unless it is special for both of us. Before I ever got married, I had always hoped that if my wife was ever tired when I wanted to make love with her, she wouldn't let me know. I had always hoped that she would act like she wasn't tired and that she wanted to make love to me, too. I had always hoped she would do this because of how important sexual intimacy is to me. We're both in our 20s, haven't been married for more than a year, and don't have kids or any other kind of big stress in our lives, and we both love eachother very much. I'm just wondering if my expectations are too high or unreasonable? Any thoughts would be welcome, especially from the ladies. Thanks.
2007-05-02
02:42:25
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