losing your virginity before marriage is stigmatized as a sin.
but generation y has almost no regards for this "rule".
it's almost as if it has become a norm.
i'm careful when i say this and i don't mean it in any offence, but i believe virginity to women holds a more deeper importance and impact, than it does to men.
when a girl anticipates having sex before marriage, it seems a lot is at stake.
there's the issue of protection, the idea of "popping the cherry", the partner, and the emotional rollercoaster.
i myself believed i would wait until after marriage.
i grew up with my mother telling me to 'stay pure' until marriage, and i agreed.
then i found someone special. it happened earlier than i thought and yes, unexpected.
with all the reassuring, i couldn't bring myself to come forward to her.
i don't regret it. it was beautiful and meaningful, and my relationship holds strong and true.
but i have to admit, there is a little guilt.
so, is it really that wrong?
2007-04-30
23:30:10
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psychedelena
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