Here's the situation....a few times lately, I've had to remind my son to remove his hands from his pants; I thought he was fondling his testicles (a very private matter), but as it turned out, he had his finger in his rear (also a very private matter). I know there are straight men who enjoy this, but is it something a (future) straight boy discovering his sexuality is likely to do?
Before you all flame me----I am asking for knowledge, not out of judgement. My job is to help him to grow into a strong man, which I can better do if know which issues he may face.
We talk about love and sex as openly as is appropriate, but he is not comfortable opening up with me about his burgeoning feelings. So I am left doing some preparatory research.
Also--PLEASE NO FLIPPANT OR ABUSIVE ANSWERS -- Please keep in mind that I am asking out of love for this most precious person in my life. I am truly looking for insight, and I do not wish to have anyone denigrate my child or my parenting.
2007-04-25
09:40:31
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