Is it too bad to have affairs? is it an anomaly to stop loving the person you made a family with? is it actually avoidable?
if so it is true that a lover is guilty for allowing a cheater husband committing adultery, why at the end he just gets back home while the lover is the villain here??? If it is the other way around, a cheater wife, most likely she will be punished or pointed at, the male lover will walk away almost with no charges as it is "his nature".
Does this makes sense or am I just talking from my very own perspective. Isn't this a gender issue also?
I agree that women should help each other, therefore not to allow cheating would be a good thing. I experienced it myself and doubt I will ever do that again.But is this a reality? should this be a rule or we just have prejudices and marriage itself is just wrong!?...
To my very weird (evil if you want) understanding, there are no victims here, no villains, and no innocent bystanders. Only "lovers", with all the responsibility the word implies.Any thoughts without prejudice here?
I know this question implies rocks coming my way, hope you answer without prejudice and a lot of honest thought.
2007-04-06
05:44:55
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Acuarela
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Marriage & Divorce