I really like him, but I'm in highschool and don't know how he would react!!?
Help!
2007-04-06 05:47:46 · 33 answers · asked by Jewel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's really just about his type of girl. If he isn't attracted yout type regardless of skin color, he just isn't.
I am Asian-American and went to school with predominantly Caucasian students. It was very hard for me to feel like I belong because of my skin color and I was worried that guys wouldn't like me because I am Asian.
I didn't date much in High School, just a prom date here and there.
I just learn that its about the attraction that you have for someone and that skin color has nothing to do with it.
If you are you and he likes that then I hope it works out. If he isn't into you, its just not meant to be.
Good Luck!
2007-04-06 05:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heey there,is the guy also in high school?You know being chocolate covered skin is a blessing!Geesh!You make it sound like that chocolate colored women have no chance at men,especially of the different color.All you have to the is be kind to him,be sweet and most of all be yourself!whats the use of being someone you're not.You're not a white girl and you cant change that however you can change the way he sees you by being confident about yourself and hopefully he sees your confidence exudes and radiates.Women with confidence always gets the guys attention regardless of skin color.It would be hard if you and the guy didnt know each other but you can talk to him.Dont worry how he would react,that and everything else comes naturally.Just do your stuff without pretensions and doubt.
Good Luck!=)
2007-04-06 06:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why he wouldn't if you guys click on an emotional level, too. I am assuming that you are as beautiful as any other girl and if he has like a problem with you being "chocolate-colored" (sorry but i thought that description was really really cute lol) then he is lame and not open-minded and SO Old South...
Good luck, girl. Just be nice and cute and sweet towards him and see what happens. Oh, and confident too because that is a rarity among high school girls. = )
2007-04-06 05:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by L'Ambitieux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you need to realize that your skin color does not matter. It is your personality that willmake him like you or not. And there is not really a way hat you can MAKE him fall for you. ut ou can do your best, try flirting with him and see hat happens. But most of all, be yourself, dont change so he will like you. Because then he would actually like the fake you and not know the true you.
2007-04-06 05:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you'd make any guy fall for you.
Play it smooth and see if you can gauge how he'll react. If you sense that he'll deny you just for your skin color he probably isn't worth it anyways.
Otherwise just show him your personal charm and natural beauty and I'm sure he'll be head-over-heels in no time.
2007-04-06 05:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by coqueto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just any other way you'd make any other guy fall for you. Trust me, interracial dating is not as uncommon as it may seem.
Look at my parents..
My mom grew up in the second richest town in the U.S. has blonde hair, green eyes, surfs and is the typical prep.
My dad is chocolate colored and grew up in one of the poorest towns in the city and grew up 'a thug'.
They are happily married. :)
2007-04-06 05:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you live in the bible belt or the equivalent for your country, interracial dating isn't taboo anymore. Just see if he is into it and go from there.
So look for a good nonobtrusive way to reconnoiter his taste.
I am gonna watch this one cause I myself am looking for a good way to figure that out. The only ways I can come up with all scream "I am asking cause I would like to take you out on a date." Not that being that transparent is necessarily bad.
2007-04-06 05:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21st century. What has your skin color got to do with it? Do you care that he's white? Then why would he care that you're not? Forget about that, it has nothing to do with it. Just go for it and if it works out, great! If not, it has nothing to do with skin, it's just not meant to be, so move on.
Enjoy, and good luck!
2007-04-06 05:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Duck in the woods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone feel something. However, you can make your feelings known and, hopefully, he will see you and like what he sees and not be all hung up when it comes to interracial stuff. If you feel strongly about this, then pull him aside and ask him out. I know it can be difficult because you risk rejection and embarrassment, but you might find that he was hoping you would show some interest.
2007-04-06 05:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really shouldn't be a problem. Just treat him like any other guy you might like. If he lets something like skin color get in the way, he's not worth it.
2007-04-06 05:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by :) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋