like it 3 to 4 times a week. She gives it to me once a week but she'd probably be happier with once a month. I wish she was more into it. Thoughts? Please don't suggest more romance. I have tried pretty much everything with no success. Our marriage is perfect other than that. Well, no marriage is perfect but you know what I mean. We have talked so many times about it I couldn't even count them all. We have tried different B/C, I have tried to get her in the mood in different ways, nothing has worked. It is not really boring but infrequent. We are both willing to try almost anything (within reason... no swinging, stuff like that). Do you think I just have to live with it. I read an Ann Landers column once and she said you shouldn't marry someone like that. She said you will always be resentful and unhappy. I think she was partially right but it is only a small part of an otherwise awesome relationship.
I posted this a couple of days ago and wanted to provide some additional information because of some of the responses. We are both in our late 20's. We are both fairly healthy, not overweight. We have no kids (we plan to in a year or 2). We both work full time and are good financially. Neither of us work much more than 40 hrs a week. We share all the responsibilities at home. We don't really follow a set schedule. We clean when the house is getting dirty, we take turns doing the dishes when the sink gets full, take turns cooking, go out when we feel like it, we spend a lot of time together and do a lot of things together. We have been going on vacations at least once a year. When she doesn't want it, she just says no. When I don't want it, I usually just do it anyway to make her happy. It isn't that difficult.
2007-04-03
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