I dated my husband for almost 5 years before marrying him. We have been married 2 years. Before getting married, I learned that he had lied about several aspects of his past because was afraid "I wouldn't think he was good enough." I also heard rumors of him having sex with a girl at a convention he went to, but for years he claimed he just "slept in a bed with her one night" and I was too naive to believe otherwise. Of course, he eventually admitted (after marriage) that he did sleep with her. Throughout our marriage, I also learned that he had a girlfriend for almost the first year that we were dating, and kept us from finding out about each other. Because of our trust issues, I had "rules" about his bachelor trip before the wedding. He came home and said nothing happened, then a year later I found out from his friends that he was given a lap dance. He is angry over my lack of trust. I don't trust him at all, and I'm so hurt by what he's done. Is my marriage worth saving?
2007-04-01
02:34:22
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Bella
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Marriage & Divorce