I have a quandry. I have been married 8 years. Now, in the beginning, all seemed ok. He was a homebody, and I thought I was too. This seemed agreeable to both.
Now, it is 8 years later and is no longer agreeable to me.
I am in school, and wish to expand my horizons. I want to go out places, meet new people, even get together with them!
My husband is very anti-social and only agrees to meet with other married duos. He is very conservative. I am very open.
We realize now we are complete opposites. My parents are like this, but have been happily wed 38 years, thus giving me the false illusion that opposites can work it out that long.
My brother is divorcing his opposite wife of 12 years. I think he is brave, yet misguided a bit. I am unclear on the details.
Irregardless, what do I do with this situation? We have opposite goals, dreams, etc...but need each other to survive financially!
What direction do I take from here?
2007-03-18
06:29:11
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Marriage & Divorce