Can infatuation turn into nothing? I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend for the first 3 months. He could do nothing wrong and everything he did was perfect.
We have now been dating for about 6 months and I feel as though something is wrong and is missing. I have constant anxiety about "what if i am falling out of love with him." I dont trust myself. I dont know if its because I have been in dramatic/abusive relationships up until now but there is no reason why I could see I would be feeling this way.
All of my friends and family say that I seem most myself when I am around him. They think that this relationship is different from any past ones I may have had…..So I don’t know what that says….
I still enjoy spending time with him and being intimate with him but for the 1st 3 months I KNEW he was the guy I was going to marry and have kids with and now I cant say that anymore....
Am I commitment phobic, is this just my anxiety, or am I really falling out of love with him?
My ex who was a dramatic abusive partner may possibly still have a tiny piece of my heart but its been 2 years so I dont know why it hasnt gone away.
I want to feel the love I felt for him when we were 1st together. Can infatuation just end like that? There is nothing that I can think of that could have possibly changed my feelings?!?!? This is the first guy I actually trust but I feel like i trust him cause maybe I just dont care...I dont know how to tell and I dont want to break up with him......
Thanks!
2007-03-08
00:56:43
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