About 6 months ago, my husband came home after a session with his therapist and said he feels suffocated in the marriage. Since then, it's been an emotional roller coaster - from I love you to I want out, all in the same conversation. We saw a marriage counselor which did not help. He tells me he loves me but feels he needs to find himself, while at the same time, he blames it on the marriage. He wants to separate but can't seem to make that decision (part of suffocation). In any case, he might be deciding on an apartment today. He cannot tell me if the separation is permanent or temporary. Should I wait for him to come out of this crisis, not knowing if he will come back, or seek a divorce lawyer? I love him even despite his hurtful behavior. We live in CA. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.
2007-03-08
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