My little sister is 13 years old and has come to me asking what she should do. Her boyfriend has been trying to talk her into having sex. I know she likes him (she says she loves him) but I also know what having sex too soon can do to you mentally. She's using what I did in the past as an example to follow and she doesn't understand it was a mistake. She can't talk to my mom about it, and I know that whatever I say to her, she'll do what she wants. She's a beautiful, headstrong, brilliant young woman and I don't want to see her hurt or diminished the way I was. How do I get her to at least THINK about what I'll say to her? I'm going to talk with her tomorrow night and I want to get this right. I know that if she's old enough to think about it, she needs to hear all the facts about condoms, STD's, pregnancy and how she changes in her own mind, but how do I teach her to tell the difference between sincere compliments and flattery used to get into her pants? How do I help her?
2007-03-07
19:55:39
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