My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and we do have normal early marriage problems like everyone. But one hurdle I cannot get over is his family and friends. I understood when I married him, he was very close to them, but now they do not know any boundries and I cannot take it any more. They call and drop by in the middle of the night. They drop thier kids off to stay with us and he doesn't consult me before letting people spend the night. Our(my) biggest problem is the drunk cousin that causes a wreck when he smells liquor. The police have been called by neighbors because he refuses to leave our home or the parking lot of our home. I have spoke to my husband about my issues and my answers are always, "I am an adult and I don't need rules in my home," or "Why are you always picking at my family? I don't do that with yours." If he won't change, what are my options?
2007-03-04
03:46:24
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