Who would be more important to you?

Question

I am trying to figure out if I am justified in the way I feel. I have a daughter with a guy, we never married. She's 13. He has a new girlfriend, which is fine. My problem is that his daughter seems to take a back seat. He last spoke to her by phone over 2 weeks ago and hasn't spent any real time with her in over 3 weeks. I know he calls and spends time with his girlfriend. Guys, are your girlfriends more important than your kids??????

Answer 1

Don't listen to anyone who passes judgment whether it's religious or not. Because just as many marriages fail as relationships and the fathers disappear.

Stuff happens. You had a baby who is now a 13 year old young lady. You love her and couldn't imagine life without her. As far as the father goes, there isn't much you can do about that. Just love your daughter. That is the best you can do for her. For some men their girlfriends are more important, and for some their not.

Answer 2

that happens more often than most people like to believe. whatever you do-don't put him down in front of your daughter.

Answer 3

When you put having babies before a commited marriage this is the result. Sadly, the child is the one who pays and pays and pays.

Answer 4

both love each other said by God. do not compare, just choose friend or kid through your heart is satisfy.

God loves all sinners and good people in the name of Jesus christ.

thanks!

Answer 5

I hate to say it, but that's what you get. There's a reason you should only reproduce in marriage. And it's not religion, it's more about commitment.

You picked him. That's who he is.

Answer 6

no...your kids should come first