From the very beginning, my fiance and I wanted a small wedding, but had different ideas about small... He was thinking 10, I was thinking 40 or so. So we are compromising, but I am stressing out about it and could use others opinions. My fiance is just inviting his parents, siblings, and best friend.
My grandparents have always been there for me and I want them to come, so I'm definitely inviting them, but in order for everything to work out (rides, etc. to where the wedding is), I am also inviting my aunts and uncles. But now my family wants me to invite my cousins... It this continues we'll have 100 people there! I already feel rude inviting many more than my fiance, but I told him that his extended family is more than welcome but he just doesn't want a big wedding. And I would like a few of my best friends there too.
Does anyone see a happy medium here? We also already chose a place, and 30 guests is the max. allowed. Is it rude to not invite the cousins (they're all over 18)?
2007-02-11
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