I've been dating this guy for a bit and he's really great but the one thing that's been bothering me is his belly. Some people are just a sucker for a nice smile, or sexy arms, but I really like nice abs, and I don't know how to tell him this without hurting his feelings or having it end in a break up, but it's hard because every sexual desire that I have for him just disappears when I see his tummy.
And Valentine's Day is coming up and he wants to go to this lodge for a getaway, but I really don't want to go, because I know what's going to happen. He wonders why I'm not really "sexual person" and I am, just not with him because when I see the belly, I just can't get in the mood. I've been luckily enough to be a good judge of character when it comes to being able to tell if a guy as nice abs or not, but he did a good job of concealing it on our early dates and now I feel stuck, because I really like him, but I can't get over this. Any advice would help. Thanks.
2007-02-03
05:59:51
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