My big brother is homeless so I allowed him to stay with me for a couple of weeks until he can figure out what to do. I was really uncomfortable about it because he is a big lier and a thief but I did not want to see him in the streets, especially because it is so cold outside. I had a talk with him and told him how I felt about him stealing from me and putting my name in situations that had nothing to do with me in the past, and asked him not to do it again and he agreed not to, but I still kept a good eye on him. So far he has not stolen anything from me, but yesterday, he called me on my cell and told me that if his boyfriend ask me if I bought him some things to say yes and then the call dropped so I did not respond. When his boyfriend called me, I told him the truth because I felt disrespected by him using my name and I am not a lier. I tried to call him all evening to see if he was coming over for the night but he would not answer. At 11:00pm, I called and he answered, and I asked him if he had somewhere to stay for the night because I had to get up at 4:00am and I was tired. I told him that from now on, he needs to make it his business to let me know if he is coming so that I will not be waiting up for nothing, and after 9:30pm, I was no longer going to let him in because I don't want him in and out at all times during the night. He said that he was not coming but he will see me in the morning. At 1:22am, my phone kept ringing and woke me out of my sleep. After his 7th time calling, I decided to answer the phone to set him straight because I was upset. He instantly started cursing me out because he was fighting with his boyfriend at the time because of what I told him. He said that he trusted me and I betrayed him. Because my 2 kids were sleep and it was so late, I did not feel like raising my voice and disturbing my household so I just hung up. Do you think I was wrong for telling and what should I do about my brother?
2007-02-01
01:05:51
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