Everything started out great. We started as friends through another friend. We talked for a few weeks 'till i went to a few dances with her. Keep in mind that we live 30 miles apart. We started going out and it was great. We talked alot and got to know each other very well. We went to movies together and to her church a few times. Then in the beginning of this year things started to change. We got into more arguments over little stuff and the connection started to loosen. I started to notice that i was changing in my attitude.I started to say stuff that i didn't mean and then one night she says she's going to break up with me. We talked and she sayed that we might have a chance. Then a few nights later she says she's going to break up with me again. I convinced her not to for now. What I am asking is what should I do to gain her trust back and put us back to where we were before all this started?
2007-02-01 01:05:32 · 1 answers · asked by Grant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No relationship is perfect. Everyone argues sometime.
But threats to leave are Emotional Blackmail.
Is she throwing them to force you to bend to her will? This is Not Good. Next time she threatens to leave, tell her you are willing to give her some space, and time to think.
Either she's bluffing (and playing games with you) or she really needs the time apart.
2007-02-01 10:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋