I am 22, my husband is 34. Over seven months of marriage our sex life has been pretty routine, pretty much same positions on the same bed. Even though I told him that maybe we can try it some other way and that I’m ready to try anything he wants, it’s still really the same all the time. Now we have sex about twice a month, about half of those times I initiate it because I just can’t wait anymore, but then I also would wait until he gets horny – and it’s usually about two weeks! I try to keep in good shape, when he comes home I wear something sexy but he doesn’t seem to notice all that! We eat, then we plays Warcraft on computer, and then he gets sleepy and goes to bed. Every other time we have sex he can’t finish, I tried. He says he’s too tired or too sleepy or it’s difficult for him in the morning.
It feels like he isn’t interested in sex, like he’d rather play computer game than have sex. He isn’t on any medications at all.
What is happening? What should I do?
2007-01-30
21:41:16
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Lilian
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Marriage & Divorce