I have been married for 5 years and 2 years dating prior to that. We have 2 children together. My husband first cheated on me while we were dating but he chose to lie and denied it. Not having actually caught him red handed, I forgave him and continued with the relationship. Then while we were engaged and I was pregnant, he cheated and again lied and denied it. I felt like I knew the truth , but he always was prepared with another lie and never admitted to any of it. It wasn't until after we were married that he finally confessed to the infidelity. So, now after 5yrs of marriage and 2 children I feel like I have no other option then to forgive him since it all happened so long ago. I would love to put it all behind me, but I feel like he's gotten away with murder, and I've been cheated into a relationship that I didn't freely choose to be in.
Does anybody have any advice on how to deal with this?? or what I should do?
2007-01-28
23:43:10
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gg55
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Marriage & Divorce